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{November 7, 2012}   In Choosing a Sex Toys

Maybe you are one of the many people in the world who just love sex toys. Of course who would not love sex toys? Sex toys help improve our sex lives, it spice up and excites the lovemaking between lovers or just merely your masturbation activity. However, with all the benefits we get from adult toys, we can also get some not so good things from it. Some sex toys can give us allergies, infections or rashes. The materials used in making these sex toys are the reason for these problems that’s why it is very important that you have to seek body safe sex toys and vibrators to avoid such problems.

In choosing a sex toy it’s not just about the color and function, you have to be aware of what kind of material it is made of. Sex toys can be made of plastic, cyberskin, jelly, silicone, rubber or elastomer or the mix of some of it. With these kind of materials, be extra careful when it comes to toys that is made of jelly and rubber, it might contain phthalates for softening purposes and is bad for our health. Also silicone and rubber mix sex toys are porous and can spread infections if they are not sterilized properly. You just have to put in mind that in choosing a sex toy, take a look of its safety features to avoid the effects of the said harmful materials.

Additionally, you have to clean it thoroughly every after use. If you use some body safe sex toys, you can easily clean it with warm water and mild soap. And if you are planning to share your toys with your lover or using the toy anally or vaginally, condom should be used to avoid the transmission of sexually transmitted disease and infections.

In owning a sex toy, it’s not just about the pleasure and enjoyment it brings but more of its safety. So when you want one, find out first what materials it is made of to avoid these problems.


Adam's Pleasureskin Realistic Cock

Adam’s Pleasureskin Realistic Cock

My idea of a perfect realistic dildo goes something like this; excellent color, size and shaped matched with realistic details for a more realistic experience. I have come across a lot of realistic dildos before. Some has lived up to my standards, while some others were just not worthy enough. But the Adam’s Pleasureskin Realistic Cock? Well, I’d like to say that it did give me what I wanted and I’m glad that it gets its job done. I particularly like the construction of this toy, as well as the soft and smooth to touch of the material used to make this realistic.

The Adam’s Pleasureskin Realistic Cock size is great and the details along the shaft are very much realistic. Built in suction cup base it is compatible with a harness, so you can use it for couple plays. This is perfect for those who want to explore strap-on plays, and definitely an eye candy for all you lesbians out there. When used inside a strap on make sure to use stretchy o-rings. Metal may damage the surface of the cock.

I was happy when I received the package containing this cock a couple of months ago; happy because this toy did not disappoint me. In fact, it was already quite huge for me, with a length measuring 8 inches with thick 2 inches girth. Beginners may find it a bit intimidating, but it’s worth giving it a try. I like the fact that it is harness compatible, so you can do a lot with it. I like the details of this dildo and love the fact that it is almost similar to the real thing. The head has a lovely shape. The shaft and the veins makes this cock very realistic looking.

Adam’s Pleasureskin Realistic Dildo is made out of phthalates-free PleasureSkin, which is a type of material that is soft and smooth texture for an authentic sensual feel. This toy is porous and you cannot sterilize it. If you’re planning of sharing it, you might want to use condoms for sanitary purposes. Only water-based lubricant should be used with this toy.

I had fun using this toy. I like the size and the details of the toy and the fact that it is able to give me quite a realistic

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Tantus curve kit

Tantus curve kit

I remember this one time when I attended a friend’s bachelor party. There were only four of us and we all got crazy and wild and all that stuff. We drank, we partied and we almost got wasted. As the night got deeper, one of our friends got something from her bag and showed it to us, and we were like “what is that thing?” Then she told us what it is and we instantly knew what she wanted to happen. This girlfriend of ours has a lesbian tendency and so we understood why she brought a dildo kit. The bride to be was the most hesitant, but in the end, she gave in. So there we were, spending the night with tantus curve kit. I must say, it was a great experience and the dildo that came with the kit was no ordinary dildo. We all went home satisfied, that’s all I can say.

Never have I imagined that I will see myself in some girl-to-girl action, but since I was with my trusted friends, I did not let the chance slip. The Tantus Curve Kit was obviously a winner for all of us, because it did gave us a new level of sexual horizon that we enjoyed. It’s a good tool to use if you’re someone who is just starting to discover strap-on plays.

The kit is composed of a Latigo leather harness and dildo made out of premium silicone.

The harness is made out of matte black nylon webbing with black fastener, a rubber O-ring that measures 1-1/2 inches and a leather back pad. The harness is punctuated by four silver snap that attaches the O-ring to the harness. It was very much comfortable to use and it fits perfectly without being too lose or too tight. If you remove the leather pad, it becomes completely waterproof. The strap was long enough and it was adjustable between 10 inches to 63 inches and the leg strap can fit up to 28 inches in circumference.

The strap-on dildo is made out of premium grade silicone, making it 100% phthalate-free, safe and easy to clean and maintain. I like that it is stiff and firm enough to be inserted –whether to the vagina or to the anus –but still soft enough so it does not poke when you thrust. We had the purple one and it was just a beauty to behold. It measures 5 ¾ inches insertable length with a diameter of 1 3/8 inches.

We honestly had fun with the harness and dildo set and I bet each of us will never forget this experience. I am planning to buy this anytime soon, but I’m not sure if my fiance would be willing to try this out with me. But anyway, I could recommend this to those who want to experience a great strap-on sex play; both beginners and advanced users.

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Luna pleasure bead system

Luna pleasure bead system

I have been a collector of various adult novelties for many years now. I like collecting them because most of them are really cute and that they give me something that sometimes I cannot get from having sex. Right now, I already have many  different kinds of sex toys and still I am up for more. One of my latest collections is the Luna Pleasure Beads from sexshop.net and I love this so much. There are so many things about this vaginal toy that I sometimes catch myself hooked and mesmerized with it. The performance is unquestionable and I really wouldn’t doubt on that because after all, it is from LELO and I’ve always loved LELO products ever since. Today, I’m going to share to you the things that I have observed from this vaginal exercisers and hoping that you might find this useful in one way or another.

Vibrations are pretty strong and it does give a powerful stimulation. The texture is smooth and therefore making it very easy to clean. The beads are interchangeable, so you do have variations. And it is very much discreet, so you have the freedom to use it anywhere you want.

The Luna Pleasure Beads is made out of a latex-free, non-porous and hard plastic material; expect for the girdle which is made out of silicone. It was odorless when I unpacked it. If you take a closer look, you’ll see that there are grooves on along the sides of each beads; however, when the beads are fit properly into the girdle, the grooves will be covered completely by the girdle and not felt. But for me, that’s just okay.

It comes with two sets of beads each containing two spheres of the same colors. Each of the four beads measure 1 3/8″ and the length of the girdle is 3 1/2″. The two pink beads weigh 1 ounce each while the two blue beads weigh 1.3 ounces. I think this size isn’t really that big and in fact, it’s quite easy to insert and it’s comfortable to wear. It’s a great tool for beginners.

I can’t exactly pin point whether the two beads do have a different in terms of performance, but based on my experience. I did felt that the blue beads gave me the feeling of fullness when I wore them. And just like what the manufacturers claim, the balls are felt very much pleasurable inside and even when I didn’t feel the movements anymore, still u was satisfied with it. The best thing about it is that, even if I leave it there for a long time, I don’t have any fears of it slipping out even if I walk from one corner to another.

And just like any other Lelo product, the Luna beads vaginal balls are very much easy to clean. All you need is warm water and an anti-bacterial soap. You have to take the beads out from the girdle so that you could wash each of the pieces thoroughly. After cleaning, wipe it dry and store it in the pouch that was included in the packaging before keeping it in a cool, dry place. If you want to use some lubricant with it, you should only use water-based lubricants since the girdle is made out of silicone. Using silicone-based lube with it will cause some adverse reactions that may damage your toy.

John Holmes realistic dildo

John Holmes realistic dildo

I wouldn’t be shy to admit that, I am a huge fan of realistic dildos. I like how these toys resembles a man’s real thing and I think that’s just really cool. I like the touch of their skin, the feeling of fullness they give when I stick them out to my vagina. I even like the texture of the shaft that seems like real veins. I already have quite a collection in my closet and I just can’t get enough. The latest in my collection is the John Holmes realistic dildo for $54.99 only at sexshop.net. Let me just say that this toy always finds a way to please you. You can do almost anything you can think of and it does feed you fantasies. It does have a suction cup that allows you to explore different ways on how to enjoy a sex toy anything that you can think of.

This toy is such a worker and there are countless ways on how you can use it, depending on where you’d want to stick the suction cup. You can use it to stimulate your vagina, clitoris or anus. Name it, and he’ll do it. John Holmes is a realistic dildo made out of PVC material it is porous, use this dildo with condom. It looks realistic, especially with its shaft that has a vein like texture. The density of the toy is also almost like the real thing. The entire look of the dildo is molded from John Holmes’s signature penis. If you’re not familiar with him, well expect his replica to measure about 12½ inches, with a 10 ½ inches insertable length. And believe it or not, this boy does have a full 7 ½ inches in circumference and 2 3/4 inches diameter. Quite big huh? If you were to ask me, I wouldn’t recommend this to beginners because you’ll just end up thinking that realistic dildos are just a pain in the ass or in the vagina in this case. It’s quite huge that it may appear very much overwhelming to the point of being uncomfortable. I’d bow down to the performance of this toy. I mean, you could just stick him at any solid surface you could think of. If you’re going to use him anally, it is very much recommended to use a condom and also, be sure to shower it with a lot of lubricants if you don’t want to end up all bruised.

John Holmes cannot be sterilized, so the way to clean him is to use a mild anti-bacterial soap and water. Wash it thoroughly and wipe it dry. Remember to cover it with a clean linen cloth before storing it in a clean and dust-free storage box. Clean it again before using it to make sure that the tiny specs that stick to it will be rid off.

Well, that’s basically it. I really love this toy because it does give me more than what I expect from a pleasure toy.

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Lelo Ella Double Ended Dildo

Lelo Ella Double Ended Dildo

I have always been a fan of Lelo products. If I remember it right, I have already owned five Lelo products, and I just fall in love with it over and over again. For my 35th birthday, I decided to get the Lelo Ella double ended dildo. And as expected, this particular dildo still has that smooth and velvety texture finish that I’ve always loved. What’s more is that, since it’s a double ended dildo, I was able to experience a whole new sexual horizon with it. Well, technically, it’s supposed to be for lesbians but in my case, but since I’m a straight girl, I had to use it with my boyfriend and surprisingly, he liked it. I’m in love with the smoothness and firmness of this dildo. It’s flexibility is also a plus for me, as it has the ability to hit the right spots.

The Lelo Ella double ended dildo is made out of silicone, so you can be sure that it is non-porous and phthalate-free, and therefore it is very much safe to use. When you use it with a generous amount of lubricant, it can give you the best feeling that you could ever get from a sex toy. Lelo Ella measures 7” long with a 5” insertable length by 1 ¼” in a diameter.

Lelo Gigi G-spot Vibrator

Lelo Gigi G-spot Vibrator

There was a slight odor to it upon taking it out of the package, but nothing you would notice unless you put your nose right up to it. I washed it a couple of times and the smell is already starting to fade more. Being a double ended dildo, it does have two functional heads. The flat end has a slight angled shape that stimulates the g-spot. The other end is a bit slimmer, because it is intended to be inserted in the anus. My boyfriend said, the size of it was just enough for him (yes, he did try anal penetration for me). And although it doesn’t vibrate, as compared to my other Lelo collection, I still like it because it gives me a whole new kind of sexual pleasure and for variation too.

It’s also good to try other things that vibrate like Lelo Gigi G-spot vibrator they have similar flat end and slightly angled shape to stimulate the g-spot. Check out Lelo Gigi Review.

As for the care and cleaning, always remember to thoroughly clean it. You can sterilize it if you want since it is silicone-made. But if you’re a bit hesitant, you can prefer using an anti-bacterial sex toy cleaner or mild soap and water. Be careful when storing this toy. Remember that, you should not keep in a storage box with silicone composition because it may alter the continuity of your toy. Lastly, make sure that it is dry before storing, to avoid moisture that may cause bacteria to breed.

In conclusion, I could say that I am very much satisfied with this dildo and I know my boyfriend is too. If you like to buy the best deal eco-friendly and cheap sex toys online, sexshop.net is here to help you to increase the passion in and out of your bedroom!

Tantus Silk Medium Dildo

Tantus Silk Medium Dildo

I am inexperienced with anal sextoys. Although I have used quite a few before, I could not really say that I have adopted these kind of play, all because I am quite hesitant with putting something up into my ass. But as the time went by and I was learning about more and more ways to be sexually satisfied, I started to appreciate anal plays and was more open try out various anal toys. Just recently, I bought the tantus silk medium from sexshop.net. I was impressed at how comfortable it felt as I made my initial penetration. It’s a great dildo for beginners because it is not that big and it’s easy to use and manipulate to hit the right spots.

Tantus Silk Medium Dildo is silky smooth made out of 100% platinum grade silicone, making it phthalate and latex free, hypoallergenic, non-porous and sanitizeable. This material is considered as the safest material that is used on a sex toy. I like the smoothness of the shaft that feels pleasurable with a liberal amount of lubricant. Also, I like the smooth cylindrical shape of the toy complete with a rounded tip. The tip isn’t pointed, but the smoothness and rounded of the tip and the fact that the size is pretty small makes it easy to penetrate with. I like that it a firm dildo toy, although not really as firm as plastic. It does have a little bit of give to it. Despite its firmness, this dildo is also flexible. It moves wherever you want to without distorting its shape. It does not have any odd smell or taste to it.

Tantus Silky Medium isn’t a huge strap-on dildo, which makes it an ideal toy for beginners. Its length measures roughly around 2.25 inches, with a thickness of 1.1 inches in diameter. This size is perfect for comfort and pleasure. I realized that the design of this sex toy is pretty simple but elegant in some way. Performance wise, I could say it delivered well. It did what it was asked to do. However, if you’ve been exposed to using adult toys, this may not be the best choice for you, as you might get bored with the small size of the toy. The flared base is large enough to keep the toy from completely sliding inside and at the same time, it works as a great handle that allows you to easily pull the toy.

Since it is made of silicone, it is very easy to clean this toy. You can simply wash it with hot water and anti-bacterial soap before and after using it. Silicone easily attracts lint and dust, so make sure that you don’t just place it anywhere in between uses and never wipe it with a paper towel to dry it up, as it will only leave a lot of paper residue all over it. You can share this granting that you use condom. Also, never use silicone based lubricants as it may counteract with the silicone component of the sex toy.

Anal bead 101

Anal bead 101

This was one of the first anal toy that I have ever tried and I can say, this makes a great starter tool, so to speak. It’s simple but very much functional. I like how it was able to give me a comfortable anal play experience, considering that I was not use to such plays at that time yet. Beginners would be happy to deal with this, as it is pretty easy to use, while advanced users could still find delight with the kind of pleasure that this toy can give. Slim enough to be taken in by beginners. It’s quite simple and easy to use.

In contrary to what most people say, I do believe that anal toys aren’t just for gays. Of course, they can still be used by straight men and women. I am a living example to that. Shane’s World Anal 101 Intro Beads anal toy I was happy that I chose to have it because it was pretty simple and easy to use. This toy is made out of phthalates free and non-toxic stiff jelly materials, making it stiff enough to be inserted to the anus. Since it is made out of jelly, expect it to have a strong odor that does not fade easily. Also, you cannot sterilize this product as it will only melt.

The design of the anal bead is pretty simple and standard. I actually like the firmness of this product because it makes insertion a lot easier and yet the stiffness or the firmness does not cause any discomforts at all, especially when used with a lot of lubricants. The size isn’t that overwhelming. So it is a perfect tool for those who are just starting out with their anal adventures. Advanced users can still find delight with it, however, if you’re using something that that is girthier, this may not be the best choice for you. The bead overall measurement is up to 10 inches long with 8 inches insertable length by 1 inch diameter graduated in size.

Anal bead 101 is plain and basic. It serves its purpose and works as it is, without any additions. Meaning, it does not have any additional vibrating function or textures. Although, I actually like the size of the balls because they aren’t of the same size, so the sensation varies with every ball being inserted.

As for cleaning the toy, since it is made out of jelly, you cannot sterilize it. What you can simply do is to wash it with warm water and mild soap or sex toys cleaner. Remember to always keep it dry before storing it. Jelly tend to be sticky, which easily attracts dirt and lint, and you don’t want your beads to all covered with these filthy grimes. Also, jelly is a porous material, so it is not advised to share this toy, unless you use a condom. But then again, it would be pointless to use a condom over an anal bead, right? You may also use your favorite lubricant with this toy.

Bringing the heat back in bed can be as easy as doing a little bedroom experiment. You don’t have to try anything crazy, as there are many simple things you can do to spice things up, and one way to do it is to add a sex toy or adult accessory in your love making routine. Experimenting with sex toys can help any relationship reinforce and strengthen the bond of love. But then again, choosing the right one can not only be confusing, but can play on the nerves as well. Choosing the right sex toy for you can be a little bit daunting, but  here are a few tips that will make things as easy as possible for you:

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{July 15, 2010}   The Truth about BDSM Safeword

Although BDSM revolves around the context of punishment and discipline, using safeword seems to be an important element of the play, which mostly benefits the submissive role.A safeword is simply a word discussed by both parties in a BDSM play. This is done in order to stop the submissive if he or she reaches the limitation of slavery. This allows the “slave” to quit following whatever the “master” commands. You might be surprised to know that if you continue to dominate after using the safeword, it can be considered as a form of abuse; in the same way of forcing someone to have sex with you even if that someone doesn’t want to.

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